Engagement Gifts

This gift should be for the couple--not just the one that's your friend or the bride. An engagement gift celebrates the upcoming wedding, their love, or winks at both.

Use the arrows on the right to scroll through our suggestions, and click any item to learn more and purchase. 


minted gift card + custom stamp - $50+

For the couple having a big wedding.

An engagement is just the start, the start of a beautiful celebration, a commitment, and the start of lots and lots of paper.

Thank you notes, save the dates, invitations and everything needs and envelope!

A gift card to a paperie or stationery company can be used for beautiful monogrammed notecards, a custom return address stamp, or used towards invitations or save the dates.

Usually we don't recommend gift cards, but every couple has their own stationery style, be it classical or whimsical, so pick a place that has great options no matter the theme.


Say 'Congrats!' with Food - $30+

for the couple that loves to eat as much as they love each other

Say "I love the way you love each other" with food. For your sweet tooth friends, send them a candy gram, custom cupcakes or splurge on a Milk Bar cake.

For a really special treat, fly in a NYC bagel spread, or pizza good enough for Bey and J to fight in.

Flowers from bouqs - $40+

For the couple that doesn't want to make a big fuss.

Your pals aren't having a big to do to celebrate their engagement--should you still get them a gift?

The classy thing to do is send some gorg flowers from the internet. Say congrats with a beautiful bouquet. We like bouqs, for the for shortened name and the beautiful arrangements, fresh from the farm.

a travel porn coffee table book - $50+

For the couple that loves a good travel story.

They love to travel almost as much as they love to tell you about their travels. Gift them a beautiful coffee table book that does double duty: it sits gorgeously in their home and tells an amazing story. You can flip through it while they make that Paella they learned in that remote village on their trip to Spain.

Build a gift basket to get them prepped - $60+

For the couple who has no idea what they're getting into.

Weddings come with a lot of expectations and traditions and a lot of amazing ways to offend people, including each other. We found the perfect collection of gifts that your traditionalist friends will love, and your rebel friends will love to hate.  

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